Actually AxShockwaveFlash works, it didnt show up because of a wrong flash player version. what's needed is "Adobe Flash Player XX ActiveX" XX = latest version number.
It might be a 3rd party extension that is causing it as they can modify the look and behavior of the page. You may want to try disabling the extensions for the time being to see if it is causing the issue....
I had to contact Parasoft Support. This message is just a warning and apparently gets thrown whether the link is provided or not.